What if they hate my presentation?
What if I have cancer?
What if I lose control and go crazy?
What if my husband dies?
What if I never get rid of these damn thoughts?”
Those damn racing, unwanted, intrusive, anxious thoughts. You’re being plagued with thoughts and images you can’t stand yet there is nothing you can do to make them go away.
We can’t control what we think, right?
We’ll see about that!
How Anxious Thoughts Take Control Over You
Anxious thoughts are like that website that you open up in your browser and gets your entire computer stuck.
You wait a few seconds and when nothing changes, you restart your computer, right?
Racing, troubled thoughts get your brain stuck. You happily go about your day when suddenly they come out of nowhere and literally paralyze you in such a way you can’t think about anything else.
The anxious irrational thoughts sends an unpleasant shock wave through your nervous system. Then, once you start reacting to the anxious thought you find yourself thinking about it over and over again, building a fake and frightening future from it in minutes.
The repetitive anxious thought can last minutes, hours, days depending on how upset you become by the thought.
How to Stop Anxious Thoughts in 30 Seconds
I want to share with an incredibly effective CBT technique to help you “restart” your brain and get rid of anxious thoughts almost instantly.
This technique is “borrowed” (with permission) from Barry Joe Macdonald, the creator of “Panic Away“, and IMO it’s the quickest and most effective “trick” to eliminate intrusive ngative thoughts from your life.
The “Observe – Trust – Move Technique”
“Observe the anxious thought and label it. Say:
“Oh there is fear X again, imagine that”
Try your very best to not get sucked into reacting emotionally to the thought.
Trust that what you are worrying about will in all probability never happen. Almost all the troubled thoughts we have are a complete waste of our time and energy.
Trust that things will work out fine.
(Joseph Cossman said “If you want to test your memory, try to recall what you were worrying about one year ago today.”)
If you are religious/spiritual than hand your anxious thought over to a higher power. Trust that there is nothing to fear and you will be looked after.
Trust and let it go.
Move your attention elsewhere. Focus on something positive that takes your mind out of the anxious groove.
Replace the anxious thought with a positive thought. You are not trying to suppress the anxious thought, you are simply moving your attention elsewhere.
You are restarting your brain.
What ever you are doing, focus on that completely. Be there. Be at the moment.
If you are out on the street, look at people’s faces. Check out what they’re wearing. If you are in your car, focus on your surroundings – The sights and sounds. Focus on the music in the radio.
If you are with someone else, focus your attention on him or her – Completely.
By moving your attention into the present moment you will leave no more room for the anxious thoughts to take control of your mind.
Remember – O.T.M
Observe, Trust, Move
It didn’t fully work for me in the first time, but the second time I did it – The anxious thoughts disappeared in 30 seconds. And so will yours.
If your life is being completely ruined by intrusive anxious thoughts, and you find yourself constantly worrying, CBT techniques are can help you in more ways you can imagine.
To learn more about how to use CBT to overcome anxiety and panic, see this article – Right Now.
To your health & happiness,
If you suffer from full-blown panic attacks, you should know there’s a technique to stop them too in 30 seconds. You can find it HERE.
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